Warcraft Funeral

So, in warcraft, on a PvP server, someone died in real life. The people in their guild wanted to have a funeral for him in the game, because that is the only way they had even known the person. Another guild decided to attack and kill all the people at the funeral. There is some discussion around the net, in various places.


It seems I am somewhat on an extreme end of one opinion. Maybe it is due to my background using the net for so long, in many social contexts. I spent a huge amount of time in irc, from when I was in junior high through college. I came out to people on irc before anyone at school or anywhere else, way before. I spent a lot of time on metafilter, and metafilter irc, on wikipedia, and wikipedia irc (right now in fact). There are a lot of people I have known in my life that I have never met in person. Friends, acquaintances, people I have had fun with, and people I have worked on things with. My best friend now I have never met, he lives in New York, and we met through metafilter. I talk to him on the phone a lot, and instant messenger. I have played warcraft, and I understand the social situation in that game, so I am not commenting ignorantly on this.

The phrase “real-life” is inaccurate is its use. Is it not real life when I talked for hours about very personal issues with friends? Or working together on a project in wikipedia, is that not real simply because the people in the discussion aren’t within 10 meters of each other? Is the output of those non-real discussions real?

There is no moral difference between ruining this funeral and ruining one at your local cemetery. The people are real, the friendships are real, and the loss is very real. That is all that matters.


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